My Blog :: Just to let you know what I've been up too!!

Hello Everyone!!
1:08PM on October 14, 2009

Hello everyone!!
It's been forever and a day again,but I am a busy busy person.Rude has grown ALOT since I've been away.I am so happy to see that! I am sorry that I am not able to get on here like I used too.
How have you all been? I work two jobs,and take care of little Twig(McP's nickname) and I just warn out most of the time!
Anyway,get in touch,it would be nice to know how all of my friends are doing.Have a wonderful day,and thank you for taking the time to read my little message here.
Muah!!
Xtc

Howdy Howdy Howdy
4:45PM on May 15, 2009

Well once again here I am.
It's been another month and a half,but I've been getting messages in my mind telling me that I need to visit everyone again.
We go for the final surgery on the 20th of this month,I am so excited!! I know the little guy is going to love being able to do things that he hasn't been able to do because of his "bag".I am just elated.

Anyway,I have been super busy with Life itself,and wish I had more time for the internet,but unfortunately I don't.I do get online long enough most days just to check my regular email,but that's about it.Oh,maybe look up a receipe or two. But other then that,my life is so very dull,except for my precious little guy!

Thanks to all of you that haven't forgotten me. Funny thing, I put up a poll last time I was here asking if I should make a comeback and every vote goes to NO. I guess I don't have as many fans as I once thought.But that's ok,because everyone has a preference.I don't mind.

But for now I will sign off.Hope to hear from you all one day soon.

Take care,
Love and miss you all!!

Xtc

Long time no see...huh?
5:29PM on November 12, 2008

Well I guess I owe you all an explanation here. I have been absent for a very long time due to medical issues with my son. Things are getting better,we have only one surgery left...woohoo!!
We are living with Zackary's Daddy in small town Nebraska now,I got myself a job again and so things are finally starting to get back to normal. I hope to be getting online a little more often and chatting and catching up with you all.Again,I am sorry I've been gone so long,hope you haven't forgotten about me.
I miss and love you all!!

Xtc

Me and Zack.....
6:16PM on June 18, 2008

are doing well. We are in another town now visiting Zackary's daddy for a few days. So that's the reason I haven't been on. Little Zackary belongs to myself and the guy on here known as ldtrisch. He sent out a blog or a shout or something a couple days after Zackary was born,but no one responded. He is a very proud daddy,trust me!! We are enjoying our time with him right now. We'll be going home probably on Sunday.
Zackary was born on June 5,2008 at 10:31am and was taken to Children's Memorial Hospital in Omaha the afternoon of his birth. He was born with an impreferated anus and has to have a temporary colostomy. But in time,he'll have a couple more surgeries and be completely normal.Like you and I. It's work though, let me tell ya.
Anyway,thanks so much for everyone's patience and all the well wishes and such. It's been tough,but also very tiring.I'll be back soon,I promise!
Love and Kisses to everyone!
Xtc

Tomorrow is the BIG day!!
9:52AM on June 04, 2008

Well, thought I'd better write and let you all know that I am going to be missing for a little while. Tomorrow,Thursday,June 5th I am having my baby.I'll probably be in the hospital for at LEAST 3 days. And then once I get home I am going to need a couple of days to rest and such. So, if you don't hear from me,you'll all know why. Wish me luck as I am nervous as all can be, but excited at the same time. I hope you all have a wonderful time while I am gone and I'll be looking forward to chatting when I am able to get back on!!
Have a fun,sexy safe weekend!!

Lots of Kisses and Hugs,
Xtc

Hey everyone!
2:28PM on May 22, 2008

I just wanted to let everyone know that I am very sorry for not posting any pics. I know alot of you are probably really disappointed. I am too. Something has happened with my pregnancy and so therefore I am taking it easy for the most part as I was told by my physician. I am really sorry, and I will eventually make it up to you,I promise!! Keep in touch, love hearing from you all! Have a Happy and Safe Holiday weekend!!
Kisses,
Xtc

Here's the deal.....
8:50AM on April 28, 2008

I think I am going to do some pictures for you all THIS coming weekend!! The first weekend of May. I will be with someone that weekend and so I will have the opportunity to have someone take the pictures and such. So if you can be patient for just a lil while longer, It'll be worth the wait.
Hope everyone had a super naughty weekend, and can't wait to catch up on all the news!
Don't forget, I really love the comments you all leave,it makes my day! So,the more,the merrier! Have a great week and keep in touch!!

xoxoxo,
Xtc

One small problem!
9:46AM on April 25, 2008

Hey guys and gals!!
I have a little bit of a problem here. I was going to do some preggo pics and get posted on here, but I am going to have to wait a few more days due to the fact that I have some infection and swelling and do NOT want to get on the camera until after that. I look freaky!!....lol. So,be patient and I WILL get those up here shortly, I promise!!
Thanks for your patience everyone!!

xoxo,
Xtc

Ok Ok Ok....lol
12:47PM on April 22, 2008

Well,I do believe that you all have talked me into it....lol. No,not really,I was actually planning on doing it whether you wanted me to or not. I guess I just needed some sort of verification as to just how much of a fetish this stuff really is. And you all gave it to me.
So,sometime this week,I am going to take some pics(somehow) of myself and get them posted. I am going to be looking for comments on them, just because I just don't think I am that photogenic...lol.
But I wanted to thank everyone that has supported me through this,and to everyone that has given me well wishes!! I only have 6wks left to go and I am starting to get excited. I still have ALOT of shopping to do, don't even have half the stuff I need for the baby. Little own the things I want!!...but it takes time, I know.
I was sad that I missed Jae's show for me, and also sad that I missed the launching of Rude last night. I had some things come up after the doctor's appointment that I had and was definitely NOT planning on it. So I didn't get home until super late. And of course by then,I was dog tired.
Anyway,thanks again everyone!! Hope you all have a really exciting and playful week!!

Kisses,
Xtc

About doing preggo vids and such
3:12PM on April 17, 2008

This blog will be somewhat short, but I have a Poll going on my page and so far the answer to it is NO! So now I am getting all confused here. I was going to do some, but now I am not sure. Kind of makes me revert back to what I was thinking and why I wasn't doing any pics or vids. Please take the time to check it out and let me know what you all think.

Thanks you guys!!

Xtc

Finally great weather!!
3:47PM on April 14, 2008

Oh,I am so glad that the weather is finally starting to get nice!! We've went from rain and snow and wind to now it's finally over 60 degrees today...Yay!! But they are calling for rain in the middle of the week again. I guess the farmer's will appreciate it though.
I am starting to get super bored now that I am sooooo pregnant. It seems that all I get done is sleeping or eating...lol. And I don't want to eat so damn much!! But I don't know, I am just wanting someone to "play" with and it's so hard to find a playmate when you are this pregnant!! Guess I'll have to wait it out and hope for fun once the baby is here...lol
So what kind of summer plans does everyone else have in mind this year? Traveling anywhere? Meeting anyone off of Rude? Well, if any of you are doing that and you should be traveling through Nebraska, you could stop and say hello if you'd like..wink wink.
I am thinking about taking some preggo pics of myself,just am not too sure yet...a little self concious I guess you could say. Well, I don't know, maybe I should just do it and see what happens,right?...lol.
Well thanks for reading and hope to chat with you all soon!

Take Care,
Xtc

Howdy!It's Friday!!
9:45AM on March 28, 2008

Hey there everyone!
Well,here it is Friday,got any special plans for the weekend? Well, in my situation, I don't actually. I guess no one finds a 7 month pregnant lady attractive enough to play with...lol. Not on a pitty pot, can't blame them actually.
I just love hearing about what you all get to do. I guess I love hearing your exciting adventures and things like that. Someday I'll get back into the swing of things, but right now I guess I have bigger things then my sex life to think about...lol
I am going to be looking for a great diet plan once I have this little one, so if any of you have any good ones, please feel free to email them to me. I want proof that they actually work and you or someone you know has had great results from them.
I've thought about posting some pregnant pics, but I have no one to take any right at this moment. And taking them myself just doesn't seem very flattering....lol.
Anyway, I just wanted to say, have a great weekend, can't wait to hear about all your naughty adventures.
Be Safe and Have Fun!!
Kisses,
Xtc

How to Properly Email a Rude Lady
8:46AM on March 22, 2008

Here is another great informational blog borrowed from the lovely TrinitySaij...be sure to check out her FREE shows and her rude page http://www.rude.com/TrinitySaij


Ok.. after many retarded rude mails day after day after day... Let me educate you on how to properly rudemail a lady here on Rude... I can't tell you how many "holla at ya boi" emails I get or "nice pussy wanna fuk" or "gimmie yo numba messages".. and it aint lookin good for you guys... Do you know what I do? I delete them... and so does the rest of us.

Here is some advice on how us ladies like our messages.. and how you can improve your return ratio.

The top 5 things that drive us ladies away:

#1 I hate all caps.. it is considered yelling in text speak and pretty annoying because it is harder to read.
#2 cha, boi, lil, kno, wat -all hard to read.. try PROPER spelling (use spell check) and not slang speak..
#3 don't call me names... I am not your bitch, hoe, slut, C***, whore or anything else.... and stop w/ the N* Word!!
#4 a little romance or idk a Hi would do great. We like a bit of manners and teasing first.. make me want to rude mail you to find out about you and what you have to offer me.. Most girls are NOT here to date, but some are.. and the ones that do want to have some fun will be put off by the guys trying to be a "player" Lets grow up and show some class at least for the first email.

Here is an example of a proper FIRST rude mail:

Hi sexy!
How are you doing hun? I did (insert what you did today or if you have plans to do cool things) Anyways, I just went to your profile and I have to say your (insert pics,vids, or something you liked on the profile) are so beautiful! I just love looking into your eyes and seeing your mischievious side! (ya know.. find something you liked and tell the lady why you liked it) I also checked out your vids! WOW! You really know how to work it! (Again.. compliments and letting her know what works.. so that she can do more vids like it) I was thinking about creating a (insert blog, story, poll, quiz, pictures gallery or new video) just for you, but I wanted to get your opinion... should it be a (insert examples here)! (We love it when people do special things for us!! You get major brownie points and who knows.. maybe something free will be given to you in return)

I look forward to hearing from you and seeing what naughty fun we can get into together! I am imagining lots of kinky fun things.. What turns you on? My favorite thing is to (insert what turns you on and be descriptive)! Would that be something that gets you going? I would love to find out more kinky things about you! I know you are probably busy, but if you want I would love to chat with you to get to know you better!

Eager to hear from you,
(Your name or username)


So Lets Recap:
#1 Be polite, no slang, no caps
#2 be descriptive but not vulgar (at least for the first message.. get to KNOW THE LADY!!)
#3 look at her profile and let her know what your favs are and why
#4 try to get her involved.. most of the ladies on here will be busy, but I know a lot of us love to get special things from our fans
#5 Remember to say HI!!!!!!

Good luck and I know this will help you get more responses!!! And ladies.. lets pass this on to all our guy friends to let them know how we want to be treated! Feel free to copy this to your own blog (you can add your own pet peeves and advice too)!!!


I do want to add that yes.. lots of us love to be talked to very dirty and love to hear all about your kinks.. but I at least want a hi first.. i mean come on.. get to know me a bit first!

UpDate on my "little one"
7:51AM on March 18, 2008

Well hello there!
Just wanted to let you all know that I went to the Doctor yesterday,March 17th, and I am 27 almost 28 weeks into my pregnancy. Everything is looking good. The baby, which by the way is going to be a boy, is doing well, his heartbeat is beating at 141 beats per minute, and he's very very active. So,I guess that's awesome,right?
I am going to deliver on June 5th,unless I absolutely have to do it before that. It's a scheduled C-Section,that is why I already know.
I am starting to get excited now, but having trouble coming up with a name...his middle name is definitely going to be "Dean" which is after his Daddy, but I haven't decided on the first, just way too many names out there to choose from I guess.So,if anyone has any suggestions, I'd be happy to hear them.
But anyway, I hope everyone had a super St. Patrick's Day, and hope you had lots of green beer for me too!
Keep in touch and Kisses to you all!

Xtc

Rough night!!
9:57AM on February 21, 2008

Well what a night I had!! As you all probably know by now, I am going into my 6th month of my pregnancy and last night was the most awful thus far! I didn't get but about 20 minutes of sleep all night long! I have been having super bad pelvic pain,something I never experienced with the other 2 kids I have had! And the lower back pain is horrible! And not to mention, I don't have any support here at home, so that makes it even worse. Here I am whining again...lol.
I truly don't mean to be that way, but this is a blog and you are supposed to be able to write whatever you wish here..

Me and what's going on
9:30AM on February 13, 2008

Well,I wanted to let you all know that I am still alive! I pop in nearly everyday and check everyone out!
I lost my Grandmother (Dad's Mother) on the 4th of this month, so it's been a little rough. We had her funeral on the 7th. My Dad is handling it quite well for right now, but I know there's going to come a day when he's really going to need us around. We are just trying to give him his space for the time being!
I saw family there that I haven't seen in several years!! And so much food was brought over to my Dad's I don't even know what he's going to do with it all!!
As you already know,our house was broken into on the 4th of January and my computer and all that went with it was stolen, so that's why I can't get on my cam right now.  I am NOT working, and it's driving me crazy!! If anyone has any really great ways of staying at home and making a decent living, please let me know. Ways that are NOT going to cost me to get started because trust me, I have NO money!! I am expecting a baby in June, and can't even buy the necessities that I need for myself or the baby. My family has helped me as much as they can, but I can't ask, because it's so humiliating. I would be there for them in a hearbeat if they were in my shoes, but that's just me! I just can't get any financial help what so ever, it really sucks!!
Sorry, guess I am whining, didn't mean too, guess it's the hormones...lol.
Anyway, I met a really awesome girl from Bulgaria yesterday,and she's definitely my new lust! Her name is Milena...isn't that a gorgeous name? I am totally after this girl!! If only she were in the states!!
Ok, well anyway, I guess I've ranted long enough, hope you all have a very Happy Valentines Day tomorrow...know that you are in my thoughts. Have fun and don't do anything I wouldn't do..wink wink.

Lots of Kisses,
Xtc

Hello everyone!
2:38PM on January 29, 2008

Looking for work again. I hate that! Our house was broken into on the 4th of January, and my computer was stolen, a brand new Dell computer, along with several other things including money I had been saving. So that's one reason I can't have my cams up and running for you!
And then to top it all off, my grandmother had to have surgery in November and that was rough. Other then that, I do get on here nearly everyday and check my messages, and you all are what help keep me going. So leave me a message, let me know what's new with you. I love hearing from you!
Have a wonderful week, and be as naughty as possible....Kisses!!