My Blog :: Thanks to all of you who have visited my page, watched my video clips, purchased my videos, custom vids, tipped my livehouse Just left me lovely comments, voted, helped with my shows !!! All that great stuff !!! If you love my ass as much as I do, lol, stay tuned, there's more to love !!! I'm always looking for hotness to help with my videos, so, by all means, cum & talk 2 me... I usually have either jokes or some serious questions... hopefully something to make you smile & think... don't forget to vote & comment !!! Smooches, Nilou Achtland

Designate a New "Hump Day"
8:17AM on December 02, 2010

Carving out a day of erotic activity can stoke your woman's fires. "People complain about 'planning' sex, but reserving this time will build anticipation all month."  Set aside one weekend day a month to lavish attention on each other. Take a bath together, give massages, or play one-on-one strip poker.

 

Squeeze in a Quickie at a Party
7:55AM on December 02, 2010

Sneaking away from a public gathering for your own 20-minute private party can jolt a stagnant sex life. And reminiscing about that stolen tryst can still spark desire even years later.

Your assignment: At the next party, grab your girl's hand and lead her to a secluded spot outside or even to your car. Since dryness can be a problem with on-the-fly nooky, start the fun by going down

 

Let her Take Over
7:49AM on December 02, 2010

In almost every culture's history, the man takes the lead in sex. But that's a patriarchal hang-up,  Let her control the pace and intensity (either initially or totally, depending on the mood), so that you both know what's best for her. The more fun she has, the better for you. Encourage her to be on top: It allows her to take advantage of a full range of positionsfacing you, facing away, even sitting cross-legged on you. "There's a lot of value in just being a still object of resistance."

 

She Needs the Distraction
7:45AM on December 02, 2010

During sex, men focus on the oncoming climax (or baseball stats). Women's minds wander, often into fantasy. To reach orgasm, she needs to clear her head and turn off her brain's fear center. "Fantasy is a way for her to disconnect her mind, and it becomes an important part of deactivating her fear center," Encourage her release by constructing an erotic fantasy before things heat up. Then, you can whisper provocative sentences to each other in turn, building a story she can get lost in.

 

If She Likes It, Keep Doing It
7:40AM on December 02, 2010

Updated: Never Stop Experimenting
Her body's sensitivity changes as her arousal level rises. "Experiment and retrace your steps, so that instead of becoming fixated on one point, you visit a series of sensitive points regularly. Set up simple codes she can use: "up" or "down" for where to move your hand, for example. Or ask her, "How's this feel, one to 10?" then vary the pressure.

 

Good Turn On Tip #3
3:22AM on December 02, 2010

Say Why

Anyone can say, "I love you," so explain why. Maybe it's the way she nibbles at a KitKat, or how her nose scrunches when she drinks tequila. The more unique your reasons, the more special she'll feel.

 

Good Turn On Tip #2
3:18AM on December 02, 2010

Whisper into Her Ear

In public, at a party, tell her what you want to do to her later: "Tonight, I'm going to make you have as many orgasms as possible." For women, anticipating it can be as exciting as the actual event.

 

Good Turn On Tip #1
3:15AM on December 02, 2010

Embrace Her Until She Ends It

Good kissing tops most women's lists of turn-ons, but don't underestimate the heating power of a great hug, especially when she initiates it. "Let her know how much you savor it,"

 

She Bought Me A Silk Thong
3:11AM on December 02, 2010

A gift of lingerie is cliched, right ladies? Well my girlfriend Dollia put a new twist on it. She gave it to me when I (seemingly) not expect sex right then and there. She passed it to me under the table at the restaurant where we were having dinner at and asked me to go to the ladies' room and change into it. "It's was a little naughty, but I gave her a chance to play in my pussy," !!! Teasing her at the table while we waited for our food ! Running her finger tips under the silk panties and between my excited pussy lips !!! Dollia keep sucking my juices off her fingers , so after about 10 minutes of that I had to take her into ladies room with me and let her eat my now very horny pussy & lick my asshole !!! And as she sat me on the bathroom counter eating my dripping wet pussy like it was better than the dinner we had coming !!! I tried to keep my moaning and screaming down , but could help but get loud , because she knows all the right spots to lick me !!!

Shit ...she made me put hand prints all over the damn mirror !!!  I was glad we knew the owner of the restaurant. Afterwards we went back out to our table know full well that people wanted to say something , but, we acted like nothing had happened.

After dinner , we gave the staff an extra tip and left out of there with a smile on our faces !!!

 

Jimmy Choo
2:09AM on December 02, 2010

The luxury shoe line, which is a red carpet favorite of stars like Kate Hudson, Vanessa Hudgens, Jessica Alba, Beyonce and many others, not only has created a women's and mens collection of shoes, bags and accessories, but also has extended its range to a women's clothing line. Which marks the first designer accessory collaboration for H&M. The shoe styles ranging from $60-$200 a steal compared to Jimmy Choo's $500+ prices that I usually pay !!!

Exercise Makes You Feel Sexy
1:54AM on December 02, 2010

A big part of sex is feeling sexy. People who exercise have an improved body image over people who do not exercise. Being more comfortable with your body leads to better and more relaxed sex. A study showed that more physically fit men and women rated their own sexual desirability higher than less active men and women the same age. Eighty percent of men and 60% of females who exercised two to three times weekly rated their own sexual desirability as above average. As the number of days of exercise per week increased, so did the ratings of sexual desirability.

Exercise Means More Sex
1:52AM on December 02, 2010

People who exercise more have more sex. The reason for this is complicated. People who exercise more are generally healthier, younger and have more attractive bodies than the non-exercisers. Frequent exercisers may also be more physically-oriented people who seek out activities and sensations. Whatever the case, research does show that the more a person exercises, the more sex he or she tends to have.

Reduces Erectile Dysfunction
1:51AM on December 02, 2010

There is a saying in the erectile dysfunction world that penis health is heart health. Erectile dysfunction is often caused by circulatory problems. In order to have an erection, the penis must swell with blood. Blocked arteries, high blood pressure and other cardiovascular issues can interfere with that process. Exercise keeps the heart and arteries healthy, reducing the risk of erectile dysfunction. Researchers looked at men over the age of 50 and found that those who were physically active reported better erections and a 30% lower risk of impotence than men who were inactive.

Endorphin Release
1:49AM on December 02, 2010

Exercise releases endorphins that give a feeling of pleasure. The classic runners high is an example. In a runner's high," a seasoned runner may experience a feeling of bliss and contentment during exercise caused by a release of endorphins. Your sex drive and feelings of sexual pleasure also use an endorphin release system. Each time you exercise (or have sex), your body releases these endorphins. The more frequent and intense the releases, the easier it is for sexual arousal and pleasure in the future. In fact, studies have shown that women who frequently exercise become aroused more quickly and are able to reach an orgasm faster and more intensely.

Exercise Adds Options
1:48AM on December 02, 2010

If you are physically fit, you may have more options for sex. Sex itself is an intense physical activity requiring strength and endurance. As you exercise, both your strength and endurance will increase, opening the possibility for more varied sexual positions that require greater physical control.

Nilou's Lovemaking Wisdom
1:36AM on December 02, 2010

1. Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests find that when women make love they produce amounts of the hormone estrogen, which makes hair shine and skin smooth.

2. Gentle, relaxed lovemaking reduces your chances of suffering dermatitis, skin rashes and blemishes. The sweat produced cleanses the pores and makes your skin glow.

3. Lovemaking can burn up those calories you piled on during that romantic dinner.

4. Sex is one of the safest sports you can take up. It stretches and tones up just about every muscle in the body. It's more enjoyable than most exercise, and you don't need special equipment!

5. Sex is an instant cure for mild depression. It releases endorphins into the bloodstream, producing a sense of euphoria and leaving you with a feeling of well-being.

6. The more sex you have, the more you will be offered. The sexually active body gives off greater quantities of chemicals called pheromones. These subtle perfumes drive the opposite sex crazy!

7. Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. IT IS 10 TIMES MORE EFFECTIVE THAN VALIUM.

8. Kissing each day will keep the dentist away. Kissing encourages saliva to wash food from the teeth and lowers the level of the acid that causes decay, preventing plaque build-up.

9. Sex actually relieves headaches. A lovemaking session can release the tension that restricts blood vessels in the brain.

10. A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose. Sex is a natural antihistamine. It can help combat asthma and hay fever
 

Secret Boy Toy
11:12PM on December 01, 2010

It starts with that tingling in between my legs,
Then images start flashing throughout my head.

The heat is building within my thighs,
Things that I want are craved by my eyes.

The curve of his shoulder and the thickness of his neck,
The moisture is building I am getting so wet.

I know I am going to do things that I should not do,
The longer this condition continues to brew.

Im so tense everywhere I need that release,
It is the only thing that will give my mind any peace.

To feel his strong body pressed up against mine,
Making all the hairs stand straight up on my spine.

As hungry as me we devour each other,
With all the passion of brand new lovers.

Stealing away moments that we should not take,
As you make me scream down your back my nails rake.

We will be each others temporary fantasy,
Friends with special benefits that were not meant to be.

Hiding in the shadows until the time is right,
To take our passions to brand new heights.

Raw animal sex that is what we are both after,
So kinky and hot is sends us right through the rafters.

Be my secret, sexy boy toy,
Just think of all the hot times that we will enjoy.

Baby I need your buff body to put out my fire,
To a higher level of sexual excitement we will aspire.

Bodies covered in sweat melting as we cum so hard together,
We will explore all our desires everything from lace to leather.

Lover until we meet again I will fondly think of you,
And look forward to the next time I have you in view.

To gaze upon the form of the body I desire,
Nothing makes me hotter or feel any higher.

I dream of a time when we can sneak away,
To a secret liaison where all we do is play.
 

Sara's F'd up Birthday
11:03PM on December 01, 2010

My friend Sara just finished the worst birthday of her life. First, she had to go to school even though she'd begged her parents to let her stay home. Then she missed the bus, and had to walk all the way.

Lol ...pour baby , I have to do something to make her feel better.

Cold Lips In Chicago 12/1/2010
10:34PM on December 01, 2010

It was cold when I went to wash my car , and i had on jeans and a jacket. I wanted the  guys washing my car to hurry the fuck up.lol , both my lips (pussy & mouth were cold ) and he want to talk afterwards. to be polite I talked to him for about 30 seconds then get in the cartipped him for the job and drove off. I was so glad to be setting on my heated seat . my ass was so damn cold ,i want to drive home to florida .I don't mind the cold but i don't want to stand around in it .
 

Is good pussy enough to keep a player ??
3:21PM on December 01, 2010

 

Good pussy is what every player wants, prays for, and some even hustle for. The particluar breed of the pussy I'm referring to starts fights, breaks up happy homes, and is the cause of many players' lack of drive, ambition & focus.

At this point, some people may ask themselves 'What is a roughneck, nigga, player, badboy ?' I'm told a real player, roughneck etc. is any male (I know some females who fit this description also) that does anything it takes to accomplish his/her personal or organzational goals.

I have a serious girlfreind & a boytoy & many love slaves, so I'm not really interested in what society thinks of as a monogamous committed relationship.

But, I have freinds... One specifically that wants to be in a committed relationship, thinking about moving in with one specific guy. I think that she secretly wants to be a wife & mother with this specific guy. Problem is, the guy is the epitome of a roughneck, nigga, player (whatever term you would like to use). He has no direction & no intentions of being upstanding, reliable or even a worthwhile person. To my knowledge she is not half bad in the sack. She is very intelligent & gifted (I believe that is the term), not just body, looks, skills etc. She would actually make a good wife. The fact that he begs, schemes, gangsters etc. for sex from her is neither here nor there.

It seems he's just her type. Withholding sex just makes him more or a scheming violent & hurtful individual. I have tried many times to take her out & find some new penis, different penis to take her mind off him & figure out what she wants & that he's not working for her. I have even tried to get her into Rude to find some possibly good people, hopefully guys... What would you do in her situation ???