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How To Sleep With Him and Look Attractive At The Same Time
8:49PM on May 30, 2012

Now keeping those key points in mind, you have to understand that your beauty do is what makes you look the worst when you wake up.

So go easy on your makeup kit when youre going to hit the sack. Your man will still love you even if you dont look like a porn star every night. And if you do want to look like a stunning porn star every night, make it a point to wash yourself up clean. Nothing looks prettier than a perfectly clean face in the morning when you sleep with him.

If you feel uncomfortable about sleeping with your face in the nude, like most women do, use a few basic necessities that will make you look, feel and smell good. Just as long as your beauty necessities arent filled with heavy duty moisturizers and oil based liquids, youd look great when you wake up with him.

Even if you love looking like a hooker while youre on top of him at night, you have to realize that your face isnt going to look that hot once your head hits the pillow.

And theres also the fact that youre going to have bits of drool sliding down your face. Ewww!

Now imagine that drools effect on your layer of foundation! Gross

Hump'n Like Rabbits
7:42PM on May 30, 2012

Ive always heard men hit their sexual peak, that is they have the greatest sex, around 18 and women peak anywhere from 30-40 years old, which conveniently explains the following: horny teenage dudes, why your 20-something girlfriend has another headache, cougars, bob cats, cubs, MILFs and so forth etc etc etc you get it. BUT! HOWEVER!! ALTHOUGH!!! NEVERTHELESS!!!! A NEW study is showering us with different information that is totally worth writing about duders surveyed in this survey seem to be having their best sex at the (average) age of 33, while women at 28.

This makes some sense guys may be hornier at 18 but by 33 they have a better idea how to work a pussy and how to better trickerbetter woo those vaginas onto their dicks. And at 28 chicks hormones are pumping and theyre all confident and hot and again they have time to find partners who can work a clitoris.

Can We Have Sex Please ?
7:31PM on May 30, 2012

I talk to so many guys that tell me that their wives just dont like sex anymore after having children. They tell me stories of how their wives used to be much more sexual and that now they just dont care anymore or that they themselves are too addicted to sex and its ruining their relationships. If you wake up one morning and realize that the person next to you isnt who you married or fell in love with, then theres probably a good reason for it. Many woman suffer from post-partum depression. In my opinion, way more than are actually diagnosed.

So, this is my advice to couples out there with children. Be there for each other and stop blaming one another. Start looking at yourself and see what you can do to change. Guys, pay attention if your wife has changed and help her to see that there are ways to make your lives more meaningful and happy. Girls, start taking responsibility for yourselves and maybe take a good look in the mirror to see if you may be the one who has changed. Learn to grow and change together, rather than just give up. Its not easy, but damn well worth it. Good luck and remember there are always others out there just like you, and be willing to work hard to make the most of your life.

Albert Lee Reynolds
2:05PM on May 26, 2012

I'm sad to say that on the 24th, my personal photograher & image consultant Arthur Petersons' uncle Albert Lee Reynolds passed away. He returned from a hospital stay and died in his bed. We do have plans to attend service next Saturday in Mountain Brook, Al.

DNA study seeks origin of Appalachia's Melungeons
4:17PM on May 25, 2012

By TRAVIS LOLLER | Associated Press 22 hrs ago NASHVILLE, Tenn. (AP) For years, varied and sometimes wild claims have been made about the origins of a group of dark-skinned Appalachian residents once known derisively as the Melungeons. Some speculated they were descended from Portuguese explorers, or perhaps from Turkish slaves or Gypsies. Now a new DNA study in the Journal of Genetic Genealogy attempts to separate truth from oral tradition and wishful thinking. The study found the truth to be somewhat less exotic: Genetic evidence shows that the families historically called Melungeons are the offspring of sub-Saharan African men and white women of northern or central European origin. And that report, which was published in April in the peer-reviewed journal, doesn't sit comfortably with some people who claim Melungeon ancestry. "There were a whole lot of people upset by this study," lead researcher Roberta Estes said. "They just knew they were Portuguese, or Native American." Beginning in the early 1800s, or possibly before, the term Melungeon (meh-LUN'-jun) was applied as a slur to a group of about 40 families along the Tennessee-Virginia border. But it has since become a catch-all phrase for a number of groups of mysterious mixed-race ancestry. In recent decades, interest in the origin of the Melungeons has risen dramatically with advances both in DNA research and in the advent of Internet resources that allow individuals to trace their ancestry without digging through dusty archives. G. Reginald Daniel, a sociologist at the University of California-Santa Barbara who's spent more than 30 years examining multiracial people in the U.S. and wasn't part of this research, said the study is more evidence that race-mixing in the U.S. isn't a new phenomenon. "All of us are multiracial," he said. "It is recapturing a more authentic U.S. history." Estes and her fellow researchers theorize that the various Melungeon lines may have sprung from the unions of black and white indentured servants living in Virginia in the mid-1600s, before slavery. They conclude that as laws were put in place to penalize the mixing of races, the various family groups could only intermarry with each other, even migrating together from Virginia through the Carolinas before settling primarily in the mountains of East Tennessee. [Related: The blue Fugates of Kentucky] Claims of Portuguese ancestry likely were a ruse they used in order to remain free and retain other privileges that came with being considered white, according to the study's authors. The study quotes from an 1874 court case in Tennessee in which a Melungeon woman's inheritance was challenged. If Martha Simmerman were found to have African blood, she would lose the inheritance. Her attorney, Lewis Shepherd, argued successfully that the Simmerman's family was descended from ancient Phoenicians who eventually migrated to Portugal and then to North America. Writing about his argument in a memoir published years later, Shepherd stated, "Our Southern high-bred people will never tolerate on equal terms any person who is even remotely tainted with negro blood, but they do not make the same objection to other brown or dark-skinned people, like the Spanish, the Cubans, the Italians, etc." In another lawsuit in 1855, Jacob Perkins, who is described as "an East Tennessean of a Melungeon family," sued a man who had accused him of having "negro blood." In a note to his attorney, Perkins wrote why he felt the accusation was damaging. Writing in the era of slavery ahead of the Civil War, Perkins noted the racial discrimination of the age: "1st the words imply that we are liable to be indicted (equals) liable to be whipped (equals) liable to be fined ... " Later generations came to believe some of the tales their ancestors wove out of necessity. Jack Goins, who has researched Melungeon history for about 40 years and was the driving force behind the DNA study, said his distant relatives were listed as Portuguese on an 1880 census. Yet he was taken aback when he first had his DNA tested around 2000. Swabs taken from his cheeks collected the genetic material from saliva or skin cells and the sample was sent to a laboratory for identification. "It surprised me so much when mine came up African that I had it done again," he said. "I had to have a second opinion. But it came back the same way. I had three done. They were all the same." [Related: Bigfoot and Yeti DNA study gets serious] In order to conduct the larger DNA study, Goins and his fellow researchers who are genealogists but not academics had to define who was a Melungeon. In recent years, it has become a catchall term for people of mixed-race ancestry and has been applied to about 200 communities in the eastern U.S. from New York to Louisiana. Among them were the Montauks, the Mantinecocks, Van Guilders, the Clappers, the Shinnecocks and others in New York. Pennsylvania had the Pools; North Carolina the Lumbees, Waccamaws and Haliwas and South Carolina the Redbones, Buckheads, Yellowhammers, Creels and others. In Louisiana, which somewhat resembled a Latin American nation with its racial mixing, there were Creoles of the Cane River region and the Redbones of western Louisiana, among others. The latest DNA study limited participants to those whose families were called Melungeon in the historical records of the 1800s and early 1900s in and around Tennessee's Hawkins and Hancock Counties, on the Virginia border some 200 miles northeast of Nashville. The study does not rule out the possibility of other races or ethnicities forming part of the Melungeon heritage, but none were detected among the 69 male lines and 8 female lines that were tested. Also, the study did not look for later racial mixing that might have occurred, for instance with Native Americans. Goins estimates there must be several thousand descendants of the historical Melungeons alive today, but the study only examined unbroken male and female lines. The origin of the word Melungeon is unknown, but there is no doubt it was considered a slur by white residents in Appalachia who suspected the families of being mixed race. "It's sometimes embarrassing to see the lengths your ancestors went to hide their African heritage, but look at the consequences" said Wayne Winkler, past president of the Melungeon Heritage Association. "They suffered anyway because of the suspicion." The DNA study is ongoing as researchers continue to locate additional Melungeon descendants. ___ Associated Press Writer Cain Burdeau contributed to this story from New Orleans, La.

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Out-of-Bedroom Experiences #5
8:58AM on May 24, 2012

If you really like to get freaky taking a train is the way to go. You'll have to pay a little extra to get your own berth, but you can use the private area as your exclusive passion playground. All aboard!

Out-of-Bedroom Experiences #4
8:54AM on May 24, 2012

To get it on in the great outdoors without having to lie down in the dirt, search for a big boulder you can hide behind so you're not visible from the trail. With your back against the rock and your legs wrapped around your man's waist, you can enjoy standup nooky as well as the scenery.

Out-of-Bedroom Experiences #3
8:53AM on May 24, 2012

If you or your guy has a home gym, use it to work up a sweat. The bench is the right balance of firm and soft, plus it puts you in perfect alignment for girl-on-top sex. Have him lie down, then lower yourself on top of him, using your legs to move up and down.

Out-of-Bedroom Experiences #2
8:49AM on May 24, 2012

You can put a new spin on this classic hookup spot by getting out of the backseat. Spread a blanket on the hood and have an old-school romp under the stars.

Out-of-Bedroom Experiences #1
8:47AM on May 24, 2012

I personally don't like being in the bedroom all the time when I'm having sex with someone . Kitchen carnal action may be nothing new to you, but the icebox might be uncharted territory. Open the door to the refrigerator and have your man sit on the floor with his back against the cool shelves. Then straddle him. Not only will the cold air give you both a thrill (you'll surely perk up!), but you can also incorporate food into your frisky play.

Things A Girl Should Know About Guys #5
11:51PM on May 17, 2012

Talking during sex stimulates more than our ears. What kind of talk? Dirty, praising and instructive are great starts. As amusing as it may sound, a womans words can make a guy feel as potent and virile as a Roman gladiator, even if hes a suburban banker.

Thing A Girl Should Know About Guys #4
11:49PM on May 17, 2012

We Encourage Fantasies Men want to share their fantasies but worry their wives and serious girlfriends will shame or judge them. Guys wish women would reveal their imaginings. If you want to open yourself to these possibilities? Try making a game of it. First, and most important, promise not to judge the other; then, privately write out scenarios that have tantalized you and place them in a box. When you are next intimate, pull one out. If you're both comfortable, give it a shot.

Thing A Girl Should Know About Guys #3
11:40PM on May 17, 2012

There are many places a woman should touch a guy when trying to control him. Like the chest, the inner thighs and face. Two other key areas: Gently gripping a mans testicles can be a real turn-on, as it blends control with release. Also, stimulating the perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, will heighten pleasure during oral sex.

Thing A Girl Should Know About Guys #2
11:35PM on May 17, 2012

We Appreciate Sex for Sex Sake Having said that about intimacy, sometimes a little throw-me-down sex is the right medicine. According to some psychotherapist and sexologist, Men want their wives to enjoy raw sex, not just endure it or take it personally. For men, its not about dominating a woman, but ravishing her. On occasion, try letting him ravish you.

Things A Girl Should Know About Guys #1
11:23PM on May 17, 2012

Guys Respond to Praise Its believed that guys are so consumed by our libido that we have no self-consciousness surrounding sex. But men are no different from women when it comes to compliments as catalysts for sexual confidence. This praise can be delivered before reaching the bedroom (give men the once-over and tell them how buff they look), and after (give guys the once-over and tell them how buff we look naked). Along those lines, guys worry about the size of their guts (and other measurable organs), their hair (or lack thereof) and other attributes. Try to be extra affirming about those sensitivities.

Female Ejaculation (Squirt'n)
12:05PM on May 15, 2012

Female Ejaculation ( Or Squirt'n For Amateur Who Don't Know It's True Name) No, its not an urban legend. Or even a Yeti or Bigfoot. Female ejaculation might be elusive, but making her squirt is not impossible. You just have to stroke her the right way. Women who are more in touch with their bodies and their sexuality may know what makes them squirt, and you may be fortunate enough to have them do it all over you. Then again, there are other women who have never experienced an orgasm (much less ejaculated), so they might need a little more help. But that doesnt mean it cant be done. Even women who have never ejaculated can be surprised when they find themselves covered in liquid after being brought to the heights of ecstasy. A womans ejaculate is expelled from the urethra, the same place where urine comes out, not the G-spot, as you might think. Its a clear fluid, not related to urine at all. But if your girl doesnt have control over her PC muscles she might just pee all over you. And if she doesnt she might feel like shes going to. Should she feel like she may urinate, dont freak out. Its normal for her to feel like shes going to pee. If you make her nervous, shell hold back and not ejaculate at all. She has to relax and completely let go. If she does end up peeing a bit and you go crazy on her, shell never do it again. Make peace with a possible golden shower. Who knows, you may even like it. If your girl is inhibited you can work her G-spot all you want, but if shes not ready to open up shes not going to come. The feeling might even annoy her since it will make her feel like shes going to pee. So make sure shes ready and willing to get wet. While stimulation to any number of erogenous zones can make her ejaculate, the best way is to manipulate her G-spot. Of course, just dont go straight for the goods without warming her up. Women are less like microwaves and more like ovens when it comes to heating up. Start off with foreplay; lick her clitoris, play with her breasts, get her ready for the next course. Once shes aroused, insert two fingers into her vagina with your palm facing up. If youre good at multitasking you can keep licking her clitoris too. Approximately an inch or two inside her vagina, youll feel a round spongy patch; that, my friends, is her G-spot. Move your fingers in a come-hither motion. In other words, pretend youre motioning for someone to come over with two fingers instead of one. It may become solid, which is a good thing. It means shes getting seriously excited. Keep it up and increase the pressure. To take it up a notch, use your other hand to press down on the area between her naval and her pubic mound. That will increase the pressure from the other side as well, adding to her arousal. f she tells you she feels like shes going to pee, assure her thats its not possible for her to do so and to just let it go. Her instincts will tell her to hold back, so you need to encourage her. Coax her by saying things like I cant wait for you to come or I cant wait for you to soak me. As she gets closer to climaxing, prepare yourself for either a spray or a gushing liquid. Either way, its all good. The amount that comes out depends on the woman, so it could be anywhere from a teaspoon to a cup. Make sure you have a towel handy to clean up and give her a break after she comes. Just like the tip of your penis, her vagina might be very sensitive Like anything else, practice makes perfect. She might not ejaculate the first time, but keep trying. After all, winners never quit. Try different positions, talking dirty, increased foreplay, and more stimulation on other parts of her body as you insert your fingers inside. For instance, you can kneel while fingering her and use the other hand to touch her breasts and lick her. Or try alternating between penetration and your fingers in doggy-style. If youre well-endowed you may be able to make her come through penetration alone. If all else fails, a little vibrator action will likely get her juiced up.

Buttery Nipple #2 recipe
11:52AM on May 14, 2012

Mmmm good drink !!! 1/2 shot butterscotch schnapps 1/2 shot Bailey's® Irish cream The Butterscotch Schnapps makes up the bottom layer. The top layer of Baileys should be added using a spoon. This is a layered shot. Delicious!

3 Dollar Hooker recipe
11:49AM on May 14, 2012

This is a very good drink too !!! 1 oz Bailey's® Irish cream 1/2 oz Captain Morgan® spiced rum 1/2 oz Rumple Minze® peppermint liqueur Stir ingredients in a cocktail shaker with ice. Strain into shot glasse

How To Make Sex On The Beach ( the drink )
11:45AM on May 14, 2012

This is my live-in girlfriend's favorite drink !!! 1 1/2 oz vodka 1/2 oz peach schnapps 2 oz cranberry juice 2 oz orange juice