What I like, look for, am uncontrollably attracted to, and makes me fall head over heels for a woman
4:08AM on November 08, 2011
Well it's hard to put into words because what I like comes in different shapes and sizes. As I think back over the past 30 years i see scattered images and feel different feelings.
A genuine interest in me is a big thing.
Looks do matter to me. If you think you're unattractive you are just because you don't have the confidence to look in the mirror and say "yea I look alright" but I don't like conceded people that throw it in everyones face and try to cover it up with trying to help other people look better when those people are happy with who they are that's vanity.
I like interesting people that actually can have a conversation. Especially if I started because I don't do that much I listen. Like if all I get all is one word replies after every sentence that just pisses me off and let's me know you aren't that interestedin me yet you want me to call you everyday. Bring up a topic ask me questions I won't lie to you I have no reason to unless I'm not interested in you.
There has to be something to you. I don't like people that do what everyone else does, wears what everyone else wears, says stupid shit like everyone else does, you have to have your own mind, but not be too abstract with it where I don't understand what you're comming at me with I'm sorry I'm not that intelligent but I do ave a PHD in common sense and if you don't have that either I'm walking away.
We definately have to connect on many levels maybe not all but most of them. If we have nothing in common then it'll just be boring to be with each other and it'll just die.
There's really nothing too specific like hairstyle, breast size, ass thickness, or anything like that. Everything else is just extra.
Also my likes and wants are on a case by case basis.