The Lost Art Of Foreplay...
12:50AM on August 14, 2012
Tips to Enhance Pleasurable Foreplay
The Kinsey Group did research and gathered 709 sexually experienced females and found that only 7.7% of women who's partner spent at least 17-21 minutes on foreplay failed to reach an orgasm. That 7.7% of women only failed to orgasm due to fatigue, stress, or overall lack of tenderness and interests.This brings truth to my argument that all women can reach an orgasm during sex every time with a little effort put forth. The key is to explore what deeply satisfies your partner. Since foreplay has become this lost art that is fast forwarded like a bad commercial; just something you can skip through. I'm going to give you guys 6 tips for pleasurable foreplay utilizing and taking away the 5 senses.
Get your mind right- 95% of sex has the ability to be mental. The mind in itself is an erogenous zone(hence the reason were able to masturbate alone). It all starts with getting into the mood. Foreplay can go on for hours in itself resulting in an orgasm if intense enough. Foreplay can begin before you touch one another when your in the right mind set. The ultimate goal should be to reach a profound state of being together and not just a "quick nut" or orgasm, but an ultimate climax.
Touch- Touching is an important element of foreplay. The surface of the body is one of the most sensitive vessels, covered in nerve endings. Those nerves transmit sensations to our brain uncontrollably. Through the caressing of the flesh we awaken erogenous zones.
Sight- The essence of foreplay is the visual appeal that most often initially arouses us. It's important to stimulate ones visual appeal, which leads to a bigger sexual appetite.
Taste- Do some exploration using your mouth. Start by kissing and caressing one another(not the genitals). Allow your tongue and lips to savior on the fruit of your partners taste. It's also sexy to bring sexy foods and fruits into the mix. Or maybe have your partner taste themselves or you from their fingers.
Smell- Find out what scents your partner enjoys and set the the mood with candles and oils. Wear a fragrance that you know would be an aphrodisiac for your partner.
Hearing- The key to achieving ultimate and even multiple orgasms with one another first starts with communication of interests and expectations. It doesn't necessarily have to be verbal. You can do this by listening to the insuppressible sounds of bliss, pillow talk, and moaning from your partner, Music is always a great addition to getting into the mood.
If you take away any of the senses it heights the others, so remember to be the artist and the brush and allow the inspiration of your canvas to move you in the right direction. Anticipation and growing intensity along with tease and denial is an awesome sexual arousal mechanism. The excitement of not knowing what's gong to happen next heightens the foreplay. In turn the overall sexual experience. Having an open mind and variety is the spice to love, life, and sex; foreplay plays a huge role.
I certainly like to take advantage of the 5 senses below is me in some good old-fashion foreplay action. Check out the free clips as well as the full version in my Flix.
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use nails, gloves, fur mittens<TOUCH>restraints
sexy lingerie,costumes<SIGHT>blindfolds
sexy foods, body parts/fluids<TASTE>mouth gags
body worship,fragrance<SMELL>nose plugs
dirty talk, music<HEARING>ear plugs
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