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Update on situation from last blog...
5:49PM on April 02, 2010

Hello all,

Well, Biff came back home and he reopened his account. We're working things out, but I think I'll still keep this name for Rude. :)

Our girls are very happy he's back home and it will take some time for me to get over the hurt he caused.. but I know we'll get there in time.

Loveya'll!
Kat

Why I've Changed my Rude Name...
5:44PM on March 21, 2010

From LustyHousewife to Katlyn1969....

He has closed his account here on Rude, but my husband was known as BiffTannen on here and he decided after almost 8 years he was going to leave me and our girls... since I'm still technically a wife at this time, but he's no longer living in the house I can't really use that name any longer since I won't be performing any "wifely" activities with him from now on.

He had said he would stay for the kids and we would live as "roommates" only until he could find his own place close by, but that changed yesterday and he decided he didn't even want to do that.

I just hurt for my girls because he's moving almost 4 hours away and will be staying with his mom until he finds his own place there and a new job and they won't get to see him much and they screamed and cried yesterday for him not to leave.... it was a traumatic experience and I'm just hoping time and lots of love from me will help heal their little broken hearts.

He was my best friend, my lover, my confident and I'm having a really hard time myself right now dealing with it all...

Also... I still have more dental work coming up soon.. actually starting this week and I'm trying to figure out how I'm gonna deal with taking care of my kids, getting to the dentist, etc etc so I may be around even less than normal of late because of this.

Thank you for letting me vent. I'm trying to be strong for my girls... but, I'm struggling.

Luvya'll!

Kat

I'm home and Ok!
9:10PM on November 19, 2009

Finally woke up enough from my "sedated" state to let you know I'm home and I'm ok.

They have a drainage tube from one of  my  incisions that I have to get emptied out every 6 hours and record how many cc's it is... they have me wrapped up in this brace and it's quite uncomfortable.

I was able to take all my bandages off  a bit earlier to take a shower, but had to put it all back on after.

So far I've been able to keep some toast, some cream of chicken soup down along with water and gingerale.

I'll be taking my pain meds again shortly though because it hurts like a mother fucker for me to get up out of the bed to go pee.

I will be turning my house cams back on soon, but if you're a bit squeamish you might not want to look. I mean I'm all bandaged up, but still have this damn drainage thingie on and it does look pretty gross. Even my hubby gets squeamish looking at it. My tummy is also very swollen!


I sent in a MoBlog photo of me sitting in the hospital bed before my surgery. Wasn't up to having anyone taking any photos of me in the hospital after.. I was way out of it and was really nauseas.

www.rude.com/mb/pkt2asRvxtu

Continuing my hiatus :(
4:10PM on September 30, 2009

Hey Ya'll!

I forgot to update my blog here on my health issues lately...

For those that don't know I received my appointment for my gall bladder surgery and it's not until November 18th.

Sucks coz I stay in a lot of pain even on the restricted diet they have me on.

I have lost a bit of weight.. not much.. but a little, but it doesn't matter what I eat my chest still hurts like crazy when I'm done and I'm still having to rely on pain meds to help me out. I try not to take them that often.. only when I'm finished eating so that I can go about my day getting at least the things I need to get done around my house. So I take them twice a day instead of every 4 hours like I was having to in the beginning.

I just miss all of my friends and fans so much on here and I still lurk around and go to some shows when I'm able... I just can't do my own right now until I'm feeling better.

So I'm really hoping after my surgery and I'm all healed up I'll be able to get back on here and have fun again with everyone.

Love to all,

Kat

Why You're Not Seeing Me Much
4:48PM on June 30, 2009

Hey Ya'll!

This is for those that are wondering why you aren't seeing much of me lately here on Rude other than a few posts here and there,  possibly a few minutes of someone's group show, and a quick post to my clitter.

If you've been reading and keeping up on my clitter you probably already know why.. but, this is for those that don't subscribe to it and or see my posts there.

My sis-in-law moved down from the Baton Rouge area about 5 weeks or so ago and was living with us up until recently. She just moved into her own place a couple houses over from us.

However, she is still over here quite often and I babysit her 3 year old son when she's at work.

Her son doesn't understand ( like my kids do ) what it means NOT to go into our bedroom and every chance he gets he opens mine and Biff's bedroom door. This is why my housecams have been facing the wall instead of their usual place(s). I can't take a chance of him being seen on cam.

Also, when my sis-in-law comes over she tends to want to come talk with me while I'm in my room smoking a cig and even though she's over 18, I don't want to have to get a model release from her for her to be seen on my cam. Another reason why the housecams face the wall most of the time.

It's just better safe than sorry.

Anyway... school is out for the summer so my twins are home and with me babysitting my nephew it makes it hard for me to get on the computer much. On the days she's not working and has her son I'm trying to catch up with cleaning house and taking care of my twins because they need some time with their mom since they have to share me with their cousin now days when he's here and believe me he takes up a lot of my time.

I would say it will be better for me once the twins are in school again. Which starts back in August, and even though my nephew will actually be old enough to start Pre-K he is not completely potty trained yet ( which I find ridiculous, but he's not my child ) and they won't let him start school if he isn't. *grumble*  Soooo.... unless I can talk her into putting him into a daycare I will still have to watch him while she's at work.

I will be back to doing my shows and stuff as soon as I possibly can because I truly miss all my friends and fans! Ya'll please don't forget about me. I haven't forgotten about you! 

Lots of hugs n kisses,
Kat

Edited to add on August 15, 2009 ---  Found out I have Gall Bladder Disease and my gall bladder is filled with Gall Stones... I have an appointment with my surgeon on August 31st to set up my surgery to get my gall bladder removed... so this will probably keep me from having any group shows again for a while.. in the meantime I'm in a lot of pain from it ( even though they have me on pain pills ) I try not to take them unless it's absolutely a must and they've put me on a special diet.. I haven't eaten fried foods since I was a teenager so they didn't have to worry about that, but they've now removed red meat and pork along with any kind of dairy, caffeine ( SCREAMS ), and even a few certain veggies that can irritate my gall bladder such as broccoli and cauliflower and I've had to cut out on what they call the "spicey" spices such as ( cayanne ) red pepper, chili peppers, and jalapeno peppers . :(

 

Some really cool vids from our trip!
7:58PM on April 17, 2009

Hey ya'll,

We're back safe and sound. I'll be gone for a little while again tomorrow because I have to meet my mother-in-law half way to pick up the twins. They stayed when we left.

My dental appointment didn't go as expected, so I'll have to wait a while and get it all done at at a later time.. need to save up just a bit more $$. *sigh*

But... I wanted to share these cool vids from our trip ( at least in my opinion they are cool -- I am a dork though. lol ).

While we were at my mother-in-laws we went to the Baton Rouge, Louisiana zoo and went to New Orleans and visited the Aquarium of Americas.

1 ) Huge Fish Tank !

www.rude.com/v/4oCwe3DYbPG/view/huge-fish-tank-by-lustyhousewife/

2 ) Upclose and personal with a Giraffe

www.rude.com/v/wlYx7cwDiYu/view/upclose-and-personal-with-a-giraffe-by-lustyhousewife/     ---  oops! had to delete this one and will re-edit it and upload it tomorrow. I was just watching it again and didn't see it when I edited it the first time that there are people walking way on the other side of the fence and I can't see them well enough to tell if they are underage or not.. don't want to take the chance.

3 ) Elephant (s)

www.rude.com/v/75B5AA9U28n/view/elephant-s-by-lustyhousewife/

I hope ya'll enjoy! :)

*kisses*

We'll be out of town shortly....
9:52AM on April 09, 2009

Hey Ya'll!

Just wanting to let ya'll know ( for those that haven't read my clitter ).. We'll be leaving to go out of town starting Sunday night.

My mother-in-law wants to keep the twins for their Easter vacation from school and I already made an appointment with a dentist over there so that I can see about getting rid of my fangs while we're over there and will have someone to watch the girls.

I've been wanting to do this for a long time now and was just too hard because I didn't have someone to watch the girls for that long of a time period for all the work that will have to be done... I'm just getting too old for fangs.. something I wish I would have thought about before getting them done when I was younger.. lol Live and learn huh?  I just didn't either think about how I would feel when I got older or just didn't care at the time.. not sure which.  haha

I'll hopefully be able to get rid of my retainer too once they've put caps or vaneers ( sp? )  or whatever it is they will be doing to extend my other front top teeth to be even with my fangs.

Anyway.. my initial appointment is on Monday morning and I'm not sure if they will do something for me that day or if I'll have to go back so we're going to at least stay for about 4 days ( possibly up to a week )  in case they will be able to do something while we're there... if not that means I'll be going back another time to get it taken care of, but I am going to try to talk them into taking care of it while I'm there.


So if I'm lucky, ya'll will see a full smile on me when I get back instead of just my fangs! :)

XOXO's,
Kat

Clitter me this!!
9:47PM on March 19, 2009

Since I'm not in front of my computer 24/7... I love to leave notes when I'm able to even get a few seconds at the computer so all my fans and friends can know what I'm up to at that very moment. ( Can't always do that either, but I tend to do it a lot more than some lol )...

So now Rude has offered what is called "Clitters".. yeah, it's a version of another well known site ( won't name any names though ;) ).. anyway.. I love posting to that one and now I can do it here at Rude as well! Yup.. I'm a Clitter addict!!

Some of my stuff might be a bit boring, but my life isn't always full of excitement.. even though I'm happy with it the way it is. 

Soooo.. if you'd like to know what I'm doing at certain hours of the day even when I'm not able to be at my computer for long... Just subscribe to my Clitters and you'll have that chance!

www.rude.com/LustyHousewife/clitter/

Oh, and yes, of course if you subscribe to mine I'll recirprocate as that's only fair. :)

Please do NOT Rude IM me wanting cyber chat !
6:03PM on February 28, 2009

1. I keep it on so that I can chat with my fans and friends here on Rude not so that I can sex chat you up or the other way around!

2.  I'm not going to get you off in IM.. Either come to my shows, check out my free content on my page, or make an appointment with me for a Rude private 1 on 1 show if you want me to help make you cum.

This is a sure fire way for me to put you on ignore in my Rude IM list if you start IMing me for that.

This was the main reason why I never gave my other programs personal IM info out, but only to a select few that are not going to ask me stupid questions like "are you horny?". because I don't want people to think they can get their rocks off in a free cyber chat. Sorry, but nope, not with me.. no way! 

If this makes me a bitch for saying it.. Then so be it.. I'm a bitch!  lol

OMG ! I'm going to really make him hurt if he doesn't stop! Arghhhhhhh!
12:33PM on February 28, 2009

Hubby hurt his back ( pulled a muscle ) at work and is having to stay home again for a few days.

Don't get me wrong.. I LOVE him to pieces... but OMG I'm not used to having him home so much and I can barely sit down for 10 minutes to do anything online and he needs something again. *SCREAMS* lol 

Anyway... this is the reason why I've had to cancel my group shows again this weekend.

I'm so sorry everyone... I really miss having my group shows and I'm hoping this crazyness will stop soon and I can get back to doing them regularly every weekend again.

Sending lots of love ya'lls way!

Kat

Answering Rude IM's
9:39PM on February 23, 2009

Hey Ya'll!

I just wanted to let ya'll know that I stay logged in on Rude most of the time, but I'm not always here in front of my computer.

So if you Rude IM me and I don't answer, it's probably just because I'm not actually in front of my computer.

There are of course times when I just won't be able to answer and those are when I'm in my own group show, in someone else's group show, or one of the live houses, or when I'm watching RudeTV, busy at other sites, and last if I'm busy working on my own website.

But normally it's because I'm not at my computer... I mean I'm a busy housewife taking care of things for my home and my hubby and I'm a mom of twins and of course the little time I trry and get some sleep.. so I can't stay in front of my computer all day/night long. :)

If i'm able to and see you are online I will of course answer you back or at least leave a comment on your page and send you a Rude mail letting you know that I did see your message.

Have to Admit.. I cried like a baby...
5:00PM on February 23, 2009

Last night when Heath Ledger's family came up to accept his award at the Oscar's last night.

I was hoping he'd get it...  I mean his character performance as the Joker in the Dark Knight just kicked major ass and I was so excited that he won... It's just that it brought me to tears at the same time because he wasn't able to receive it himself.

I just couldn't stop the tears and like Biff and I talked about.. if he had been older ( as there has been many older actors pass on this past year ) he would have been missed greatly as they are... it's just so different when they are as young as he was and just so tragic...

Cancelling my group shows for this Saturday and Sunday ( Feb 14th & 15th ) - Biff is home hurt
12:17PM on February 14, 2009

Hey ya'll!


Sorry I have to do this YET AGAIN! :(

My hubby, BiffTannen, is home and is on crutches.

If he was home and wasn't on crutches I would go ahead and do my shows because he would be able to watch our twins, but since he's kinda "stationary" at the moment and cant get up and run around chasing the girls to keep them occupied it's best i just cancel my shows this weekend.

He woke up Thursday morning with his ankle hurting and could barely put his weight on that foot. I took him to the ER to get it looked at and they did an x-ray and said there were no broken bones that he must have sprained his ankle some how. ( Sprained it in his sleep?  Ummm.. ok.. went to bed not hurting then woke up with it hurting... how can someone sprain their ankle in their sleep? )

Anyway, later that night it was worse than it was that morning.. I had did all the things such as put ice on it, give him his pain meds, etc and now his whole foot was swollen and red.. he couldn't put any weight on it at all. It hurt for him to even move it while sitting!

Yesterday morning I had him call his regular doctor and they told him to come right on in.

They did some blood work to confirm and we'll find out the results for sure when he goes back in on Monday, but his doctor looked at it and right away said "Gout".

He gave him a prescription for an anti-inflammatory med ( said it wouldn't hurt him even if it turned out NOT to be Gout.. but better if he takes it just in case that's for sure what it is ) and ordered him some crutches.

That's what it must be because Biff says that it still hurts some when he puts his weight on it, and is still a bit swollen, but the pain has dramatically decreased since he started taking the inflammatory meds.

For those that don't know what Gout is.. we didn't either and had to look it up.. so here's the deal:

What is gout?

Gout is a kind of arthritis. It can cause an attack of sudden burning pain, stiffness, and swelling in a joint, usually a big toe. These attacks can happen over and over unless gout is treated. Over time, they can harm your joints, tendons, and other tissues. Gout is most common in men.

What causes gout?

Gout is caused by too much uric acid in the blood. Most of the time, having too much uric acid is not harmful. Many people with high levels in their blood never get gout. But when uric acid levels in the blood are too high, the uric acid may form hard crystals in your joints.

Your chances of getting gout are higher if you are overweight, drink too much alcohol, or eat too much meat and fish that are high in chemicals called purines. Some medicines, such as water pills (diuretics), can also bring on gout.

What are the symptoms?

The most common sign of gout is a nighttime attack of swelling, tenderness, redness, and sharp pain in your big toe. You can also get gout attacks in your foot, ankle, or knees. The attacks can last a few days or many weeks before the pain goes away. Another attack may not happen for months or years.

See your doctor even if your pain from gout is gone. The buildup of uric acid that led to your gout attack can still harm your joints.

So anyway.... I will miss you all this weekend, but I'm playing nurse maid for hubby.. getting him his meds, serving him his food and getting him water when he wants it.. also putting in DVD's for him to watch coz he's bored.. well actually was bored.. I bought him a X-Box 360 yesterday since his Federal Refund came in and now at least he can sit on the couch playing his Fable II game and it keeps him from being grouchy.  LOL

Happy Valentines Day to you all!

Wishing you lots of love,

Kat

Give me more than just cock !
9:56AM on February 04, 2009

I have seen lots of women on this site say the same thing as my subject line so I know I'm not alone on this.

You're probably asking yourself.. "doesn't she enjoy cock?"

The answer is... of course I do!  But let me explain something and I know this doesn't pertain to ALL women... but for me and a few select others I know it sure does!

If all you have on your Rude page is vids and photos of your cock, stroking your cock, etc... it's not going to interest me and I can't honestly leave any comments, even though I will vote and give you 5*'s because well.. a cock is a cock is a cock.  lol

You have to realize I get to see cock anytime I want from my hubby and even sometimes when I don't want when he tends to pull his pants down just to be funny and expose himself to me.  LMAO

I'm the type of woman that gets more turned on by eyes and smiles and brain stimulation ( poetry, singing, speaking, reading, artisitic abilities )... not just by merely looking at a man's dick.

This doesn't mean that it doesn't turn me on during a show to know that I'm turning someone on and rather enjoy seeing a cock when I'm in private shows... but again that's because it turns me on knowing I'm doing something for you and enjoy seeing how I'm affecting you!

I just don't want to visit a Rude page and see nothing but stroking or your dick hanging out ( if you want any comments from me anyway ).  lol

I don't mean to offend anyone and sure I have a lot of masturbation vids and photos of myself on my Rude page.. but you know.. a lot of that is stuff that is done in my live shows and also things that have been requested of me. Plus.. if I go by what my hubby tells me.. men are a lot more visual in most cases when it comes to being turned on than women.

Again, I can't speak for all women.. just myself and a select few that I know feel the same way... stimulate our minds and we are more likely to respond!

So I'm hoping I get to see some different types of vids and photos from some of you guys that ONLY have cock vids and photos on your pages right now. Whether it be reading some sexy stories, poetry, singing, comedy, if you can draw or paint..that's awesome too... Let me see your face ( eyes and mouth in a different way ) ! Be creative and original and you'll get some comments as well as those stars. ;)


Lots of kisses,
Kat

Recent Winners of my contest...
10:08PM on February 03, 2009

Congrats to --

fulgrimm
alohainwa 
hardy1973
deluckycharm

They all stayed from the very beginning of at least one of my recent FREE Sponsored Group Shows until the very end and were able to enter for a chance to win and they won!

What did they win?

A FULL 1 Week FREE pass to my personal website!

The contest is still going on until the end of February and you could get a chance to win too!

Just come to any one of my FREE Sponsored Group shows I have during February and be no later than at least 15 minutes from when the show starts and stay until the very end of the show to participate in a chance to win.

The only things requirerd are of course that you come on time as stated above and stay for the WHOLE show, you MUST be a Rude member ( free or VIP it doesn't matter ) I just need to be able to get in touch with you via Rude mail if you win, AND you can't already be an existing unlimited pass member or paying member of my website.

At the end of the show I'll write a number on a piece of paper and ask those that want to participate to pick a number from 1 - 100 -- you choose ONE number coz that's the one that counts.. when everyone that wants to enter has done so I will show my number. If you are the closest to it or right on spot to my number you will be a winner of that FULL 1 week FREE pass to my personal website.

So ya'll be sure to come to my FREE Sponsored Group shows for a chance to win! ;)

See ya there!

Muah,
Kat

BBW Coffee, Cigs, & Me! ;) - FREE Sponsored Group Show Today !
9:55AM on February 01, 2009

Today, February 1st @ 10am CST ( 11an EST ) I'm having my BBW Coffee, Cigs, & Me which is a FREE Sponsored Group Show!

It's an hour long ( 60 minutes )

Try to come on time because I prefer to do Q & A's BEFORE I start playing. ;)

So if BBW's ( Big Beautiful Women ) ARE your thing... I sure hope to see ya there!

www.rude.com/ls/6kxbXbqYQ0R/

Please don't forget to click on my stars and my sponsor.. without my sponsor this show would NOT be FREE for YOU!!

Also... just because it's free doesn't mean you need to leave your manners behind. Absolutely NO requests for this show--- thanks!

Oh and if you are NOT into fat women, there is no need in coming in and making an ass of yourself by saying childish things.. just pass me up and find another show.

There's plenty enough beautiful women ranging from thin to ssbbw on Rude that I'm sure you'll find someone to satisfy your needs. ;)


Kisses,
Kat

P.S. If you arrive EARLY ( no later than 15 minutes AFTER the show starts ) and stay the WHOLE show... I'll be giving away a FREE 1 week pass to my personal website... I'll tell ya how you can win during the show! You can check out my website before hand by visiting:

www.rude.com/LustyHousewife/goto_website/

BBW Saturday Special - FREE Sponsored Group Show Today !
11:17AM on January 31, 2009

Today, January 31st @ 1pm CST ( 2pm EST ) I'm having my BBW Satuday Special which is a FREE Sponsored Group Show!

It's an hour long ( 60 minutes )

Try to come on time because I prefer to do Q & A's BEFORE I start playing. ;)

So if BBW's ( Big Beautiful Women ) ARE your thing... I sure hope to see ya there!

www.rude.com/ls/x4t0UEewG3T/

Please don't forget to click on my stars and my sponsor.. without my sponsor this show would NOT be FREE for YOU!!

Also... just because it's free doesn't mean you need to leave your manners behind. Absolutely NO requests for this show--- thanks!

Oh and if you are NOT into fat women, there is no need in coming in and making an ass of yourself by saying childish things.. just pass me up and find another show.

There's plenty enough beautiful women ranging from thin to ssbbw on Rude that I'm sure you'll find someone to satisfy your needs. ;)


Kisses,
Kat

P.S. If you arrive EARLY and stay the WHOLE show... I'll be giving away a FREE 1 week pass to my personal website... I'll tell ya how you can win during the show! You can check out my website before hand by visiting:

www.rude.com/LustyHousewife/goto_website/

Cancelling my group shows for this Saturday and Sunday ( Jan. 24th & 25th )
9:57PM on January 23, 2009

 i have a really bad cold so I'm going to try and get some rest...

I taught my twins to share, but this is something I really wish they would have kept to themselves.  lol

I'm all congested and coughing something horrible. That means I'll have to cancel my group shows for this weekend coz there is no way I would be able to get through a show w/out coughing my head off and it hurts my chest so bad coz it's such a deep cough. :(

See you all real soon!

kisses,

Kat

BBW Saturday Special - FREE Sponsored Group Show Today !
12:31PM on January 17, 2009

Today, January 17th @ 1pm CST ( 2pm EST ) I'm having my BBW Satuday Special which is a FREE Sponsored Group Show!

It's an hour long ( 60 minutes )

Try to come on time because I prefer to do Q & A's BEFORE I start playing. ;)

So if BBW's ( Big Beautiful Women ) ARE your thing... I sure hope to see ya there!

www.rude.com/ls/x4t0UEewG3T/

Please don't forget to click on my stars and my sponsor.. without my sponsor this show would NOT be FREE for YOU!!

Also... just because it's free doesn't mean you need to leave your manners behind. Absolutely NO requests for this show--- thanks!

Oh and if you are NOT into fat women, there is no need in coming in and making an ass of yourself by saying childish things.. just pass me up and find another show.

There's plenty enough beautiful women ranging from thin to ssbbw on Rude that I'm sure you'll find someone to satisfy your needs. ;)


Kisses,
Kat

P.S. If you arrive EARLY and stay the WHOLE show... I'll be giving away a FREE 1 week pass to my personal website... I'll tell ya how you can win during the show!

Mod Bootcamp Group Show by TrinitySaij
9:15AM on January 15, 2009

Hey Ya'll!

Just heads up for ANYONE that is a house appointed Mod here @ Rude...


TrinitySaij is having her Mod Bootcamp group show today and it's a show I recommend you going to see... Whether your my mod or someone else's!

The show starts @ 2pm CST ( 3pm EST ) and is an hour long ( 60 minutes ).

She gives great advice and is always open to your questions on being the best mod you can be for your host (s).

www.rude.com/ls/8YUH2Asb986/