I think youve covered all the bases my friend.
I would just like to add this from a straight mans point of view.
If a guy is checking out your vids and looking at the guys dick and not you then maybe thats what he really wants, the Dick and not the Pussy, lol
The only other reason he should be checking out the guy and not you, is because he is trying to learn your ways by studying the guys moves to see what exactly it is that pleases you. This way he can try those techniques if he ever one day has the opportunity, or should I say blessing to lay with you.
Now! For the ten thousand dlr. Question; please can you try describing to us some of the things that do turn you on and as you say make you bust a nut?
Im talking both emotionally as well as physically.
Hugs & xoxoxoxoxos all over your sexy body